VISITING THE WIZARD
Visiting the Tea Master
or coach in the organization of consciousness
I'm buying, communicating with a personal trainer? There is also a product that I could feel. I go with my theme and I want to understand it.
Well, and how to evaluate the work of a coach?
At first glance it is not clear. I want to be there was clarity in my head, and so I could then independently solve their problems. Or better still, to me they no longer appeared. The school did not teach me this, and have to find a specialist in this field (if one exists). And I wonder how he dealt with her (so I could talk to him and trust). Then he can understand, what I want really. But for me it's important to already organize their lives accordingly.
For me it is - the most difficult question - to decide. What did not come up with - not inspiring, and exhausting. There is no initiative, and loses interest. And he himself had invented. And not only promised. And from me, waiting for the results.
And then one day turned to the coach. Friends advised that he had been before. They say that helped. Just what, no one really could not explain. And I took a chance. I wanted to own their position and understand who I am dealing with, and on what occasion it was a person engaged in the profession. Trust him outright, I had no reason to. And it is understandable. I did see a person for the first time.
It looks nice and friendly. Nothing does not ask. It was nice to be in his company. And he is wondering how to brew tea, pouring water from cup to cup. I watched his movements, and it was pleasant to me. He did it with ease. It was a pleasure to watch. I was wondering why he had so carefully looking at the water and I started asking questions. It is evident that he was glad my curiosity. And frankly was talking about the process of boiling.
It was interesting, because I thought about the stages of his life, when, how and what took place. We were immersed in the subject. I enthusiastically told my life story. He listened attentively, sometimes nodding his head. It was evident that he is interested. He listened patiently, in the course of preparing tea. It was a beautiful sight, and together we admire the color of infusion. I've honestly had forgotten why he had come. And his clear question reminded me of this. By this time I was told about a half of life, and immediately tried to answer, what brought me here.
Certainty, - I replied. I want to know why I'm here and give meaning to life.
He smiled and looked earnestly into my eyes. It was evident that he is interested in this topic. I was glad that we met, and enjoyed watching the slow and very gentle movements of the master. It was evident that he enjoys the process of preparation of tea, because doing it carefully and with love. I do not understand what he was doing, and repeated his intention.
- I heard - he said kindly. And what do you want from me?
- For you to help me figure it out. My friends were with you and said they liked it. Only no one could explain clearly what you are doing here. But they went away very happy, and their wives were told as a great time. And for some reason, then the process at work took off.
- They themselves understood. I wanted to help them do that with love and brewed tea. This is what I did. They talked and realized then drank tea and talked again. This lasted for two hours. I am glad that they realized that, why they came. I want everyone to realize his destiny and went on what he intended. This is my mission.
- How do you know?
- Felt. It's a long way to go. And another happy to help. This is my vocation and the meaning of my life.
- Why such a conviction?
- The fact that everyone finds his destiny and it fills my life with meaning.
- How do you make sure that the man was taken to where he want?
- And he makes sure it follows this path. Therefore, becomes happy. Appears faith, strength and desire to be realized. This is my main result. For him and get the money. This is what I can do best. This is what my heart is glad, and I feel realized. So this is my destiny.
- But it's all subjective.
- Yes, all of the criteria within you. I can help you only hear yourself, you hold the secrets of your subconscious mind, to hear the voice of the heart. But trust him or not - you decide. It is your choice.
- Is risky.
- No more than to cross the road.
- You simplify.
- Not much. I am your companion and follow you that you matter. And stop if you do not go up. And that I see in your eyes.
- It's easy and responsible way.
- Yes, it's my job - he said quietly, and filled another cup.
I was glad to know him, because he evoked in me the confidence. I felt that it would not ship me anything, and yet did not know what next to him I say. He repeatedly asked the question about why I came. I was confused at first for some time. Then I realized that I wanted to learn to listen to your heart and be guided by your soul, and realize his destiny.
My plan seemed to me too grandiose, but the other I did not want to and I realized that I had come for it, but do not know what to say about it. He seemed to listen to my thoughts and all my self-talk.
- Important for you to hear the heart and soul to go through - yes exactly and said the master.
- Yes, I'm here for this - I agreed, knowing that he got to the point. I was glad that he guessed because it was hard to talk about this stranger.
- And you will not allow his wife to her own child, - he said, pouring the next cup.
- How do you know? - I asked in surprise.
- In my eyes saw when you were talking about how rare with him You Think.
I sat in silence, a little puzzled.
- You want to establish a relationship with him?
- It is important to my son.
- And you?
- I'm tired already of uncertainty.
- Are you divorced?
- A few months.
- How long has your continuing uncertainty?
- As early as 5 years. And why do you ask?
- And because you have become dull eyes when you talked about it. And what do you hold?
- She gave me a lot in life. And I am grateful to her.
- Do not feel it. Rather, depending.
- Yeah, - I said.
- You can not forgive her boy your role.
- I'm afraid of her. She manipulates me like a lamb. But I'm tied to her as a mother.
- She loves you, filial love, and it sickens you.
- It's true you said. I'm tired of this uncertainty. But I do not understand, how do to this theme questions about the meaning of life.
- Direct. Until you walk a situation with my wife, do not leave the path of the heart. It is your obstacle and your pointer. She - what hurts the most, and therefore prevents the focus on your destination. From perplexity, and futility.
- But how to fix it?
- Not with her, and with his attitude to it, and with what you missed in childhood, then you get into adult life. This will free your mind and you're ready to listen to your heart.
I knew him believe, and I wanted to continue this important conversation for me. We have already finished their tea, and he offered to take stock. We talked for two and a half hours, and I felt tremendous relief and readiness to deal with all that oppresses me. But understand that I need this driver, which I feel my heart and help to get out of the wilds of mind in case. I trusted him and was ready to meet next time.
- How much do you evaluate our work with you? - Suddenly he asked the master.
I understand that the issue of price rise, but how to evaluate, I did not know and told him about it. Then he said: "What was valuable for you?".
- I figured, why come here.
-What else?
And I realized that I must deal with his relationship with his wife and that it is important for both to let go of the past and be free for a new perception. Realized that for me it is now the main thing. And, perhaps, for my son. Then I was with him otherwise be able to build relationships as an adult father. This is valuable for both of us.
Suddenly I realized that during that time has reviewed all his life. And with a father who beat me in childhood. And with the neighbors, who constantly harassed me about my personal life. And with friends who do not leave me alone about my relationship with my son. Everybody all for some reason, it is necessary, but no one could give good advice, and everything returns to normal.
It seemed to me a master of communication with the thread for which you can begin to unravel the tangle of privacy. She was very thin, but had a clear belief that I hold it securely. And it was obvious that it was for her to go.
- So what do you understand?
- What is my life in my hands. But I need support to get through this stage and I am ready to work with you.
- You did not answer the question of the value of this knowledge to you?
- It's a complicated question. I do not know how to evaluate it.
- If you were told at the beginning, that will go with this confidence, how many would be willing to pay for it?
- 200 euros.
- How do you define it?
- Internal scales. I weighed myself for this outcome.
- You just measure it. What prompted you to this figure?
- You know, the less I can not. Too many levels of work. More - also, because I am only beginning. And, in faith, yet I have nothing. I feel that amount sufficient to repay you.
- Are you sure you measure your results. It is important that you did it yourself. I could tell you, but this is not for you it would be valuable. I confirm to you that your intuition works well, just need to learn to trust her.
For me, this approach was unexpected, but I felt this harmony and clarity of relationships, which I've always lacked. And I thought, how do you measure the conjugal relationship.
- It's easy, - replied the master, reading thoughts.
- You read my mind? - I asked, puzzled.
- No, just when you talk or think about my wife, you twitch your right shoulder. I watched it for 2 hours. So it was not hard to guess.
- You - Sherlock Holmes.
- I'm observant.
- That's what I'm talking about.
- By this we shall return later. You can clean and marital relationships, and weigh the stake each in the overall project development relationship.
- It is not possible - I replied.
- There are criteria for evaluating partnerships. Their balancing ensures a harmonious relationship, suiting both, and the reciprocal.
I realized that I got the address for that person just looking for that would help me to improve relations not only with his wife, but also with the world. I'm a creative person, and drowned in some disassembly and no longer happy. But there were so many ideas! And in some past.
- When we meet? - I asked.
- After 10 days, on Saturday.
I understand that this is the minimum period for which I must deal with his wife and decide the following range of tasks. I was determined to turn my whole life, but did not know how it all it's better to start.
- Take your time, - said the master, seeing my inspired look. You will arrive on Saturday, we'll see. In the meantime, watch their reactions as to why you react in particular. And on Saturday, talk about it.
I was glad to know him. I hope. I gave 200 euros, and was about to leave. The Master again asked me what became of the money. And what is to me their value. I thought of things in this price bracket, but their value was not compared to those that received today. He left me with this question. And he said, so I started thinking about his destiny. I got dressed, buttoned boots. And he caught himself on why he asked me again about the value received.
- Because today you first started thinking about the value of the purchased items and your attitude to money. The fact that they mean to you, we'll discuss later. Now go. You will find a wife. She has already picked up her son from school and waiting for you at the door already half an hour.
I was shocked. It turns out that she knew that I went to see a master, and waited for my return. This she told my friends when they passed their crisis stages. It turned out that she knew a long time the master, but I could not bring herself to say about it. I was surprised by this turn of events, but was overjoyed. Now I feel that together we can handle it exactly, and I will get rid of their addiction and will return her son. I was surprised at the wisdom and patience of this woman. I realized that she supported me for so many years in the way of my heart, and I wanted her to prove that I'm smarter. Now, understand that everything must be different, but a little frightening amount of the work. At the same time realized that the whole universe is in that supports me. Though I am not a believer, but this turn of events suggests that there is a supreme eye. So somehow everything coordinated. And, as if I was even prepared for this eventuality. And my wife said we'll meet again. And I did not believe her. Well, and passages in the universe!
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