Every once there comes a point when he ponders the meaning of his life. The answer comes immediately. To find it necessary to fall into a very deep. And only there, in our inner depths we find our core values.
"Values at everyone" - you might say. Their the ones that determine the individuality of each one of us. Without a doubt. And unite us all - the need for love. Of energy that nourishes, heals, spreading. It does not happen much. And when we are full, we begin to radiate. We naturally want to share our warmth.
The next priority for us is to create a space close to home - the family. When we create a warm and trusting relationship with our surroundings, we meet him as a native language, and our family is growing. We begin to care about them as their loved ones. It warms us and want to serve our environment more and more.
This is followed by the needs of self-sufficiency. The question of "where to get the money" - is the reverse side of the question "how can I serve you? What can I do for you, you to be happy? "
Money come to us from the outside world to create value for him. Therefore, the focus of attention on taking care of it leads to financial prosperity. Analyze and see that the money comes to you when you created for the people some value. We are not accustomed to think of such categories. We are more familiar with financial performance and career ladder. But behind all this, by and large, is SERVICE. This realization takes you to step understanding.
Not familiar, at first called the man created for the result. When the deal we say "sold". And it will replace the true value of action, and therefore do not value themselves.
We have no culture of awareness itself. We're trying to do something, to look better, be more efficient, better off. In these words there is no shade of care. And it's our culture. Culture and benefits of bravado. At the same time we all want a good honest relationship. We are not pleasant people to impose their point of view. We do not feel them feel loved, because it seems to us that they want us smanipulirovat. Moving away from them and try to bring communion to an end. A person simply pursuing their own advantage, and it was not true to our desire, which, by the way, we ourselves can not always understand. But hypocrisy is always felt. The heart does not deceive. But the mind of the bait can be caught and what happened to each of us.
How can stop this rugged range of each other?
Open your heart and act in love
"It's hard" - you say, "when there is so much manipulation." Love can not be manipulated. And if you do not feel love for the other party, it is likely that begin to manipulate themselves. Stop manipulation can only be sincere attitude to the interlocutor. And he feels his hypocrisy, his replacement priorities. When he first put the self, then closes the heart. He no longer recognizes the interlocutor partner, and he sees an object to gain. From here take a lot of "no" from our environment.
Why do we so badly when he refused?
Because not fed. If after giving us bad, so we wanted to eat. And I must honestly admit to ourselves. What was our interest in the man? As far as he was exposed, trust? Here's to many, and told of their needs. Open man because he will tell all. And if we did not get to your suggestion, then, simply in the wrong hole it was placed.
Only your open heart open man. And every heard "no" - an indicator of your concerns about yourself. Admit this idea and analyze the obtained waivers. They are - valuable luggage for introspection. True, this is one of those for whom personal growth - the value. And now if people do not actually need your product or service, then your sincere respect for him, he will refuse care, and will not send. And will not feel de-energized, because you already gave each other the attention, even on other topics.
With each contact be carefully and people will come looking for you. Enjoy the process of communication and keep in mind the priorities:
1. Love
2. Family
3. Environment
4. Self-sufficiency
In the next issue we will change with your priorities and see how life develops with such beliefs. Although you can do it themselves by telling about their stories .
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True love - it's admiration, without the right of possession and worship!